Take responsibility we dig underneath and we understand what the triggers are that make women turn off then we can turn them back on and not by some stupid technique but by the thing that affects most women to deepest and that is your presence most women are starving for a man whose present what does present mean it needs a man who is right here with me one hundred percent right now his mind isn't doing 20 other things I know gentlemen it's hard to be present when woman is talking to you and she's talking about so many things so quickly very often that don't relate to the woman's brain has something called diffused awareness it means they taken everything all at once it isn't multitasking it's literally transitioning not even transitioning experiencing multiple conversations and people at one time whereas men to the focus on one thing at a time and when a woman starts doing that most men's brains click in or they try to focus on one thing they can hand and they're no longer present if you're in your head and you're not connected that woman she doesn't feel that presence and presence is what opens a woman presence is what causes a woman to open you essentially sexually emotionally her heart or soul whole nine yards ladies correct me if I'm wrong there is nothing more powerful than presents when there's real love involved so and off often women respond to a man who doesn't mean love them but whose present for them but they feel like there's nothing else in the world but me right now and gentlemen you know how to do that when you're in the zone in sports you are so present when you're in the zone trying to solve a problem you were so there and you probably were so there when you were pursuing this woman but if you can train yourself to bring that presence back on a regular basis you can own your woman like she'd never been on where she will literally melt to you I don't think most women who are feminine would argue with what I'm sharing with you right now if they do they can not only talk about the video they can write some comments down below wherever this thing is posted so what makes women also feel you're not present is when you may feel like you're not honest and most men are truly audit but they just don't want to deal with what they call the shit that must be the technical term right the ship again for telling the truth because she disagrees about it and then get worn out by words men would happy to resolve it the finally they'll just say yeah yeah okay okay when you say yeah yeah okay okay that's not really okay with you you're not present so she gets even more animated see most women they don't want a pleaser they would like to be pleased but they don't want to please her I. Please there's time to anything a can to make things work they feel there's no present for the man he has no century has no strength they may like him but it's going to be hard for them to respect him and if she doesn't respect him there's not going to be a lot of passion and him is you that's a real problem you and I both know with you're a single man who's meeting women or whether you're in an intimate relationship so I thought maybe we'll show you one example of how women perceive dishonesty with men perceive it as just leaving things out so they don't have to deal with more challenges and how to deal with it differently I can tell you that verbally but it might be better to witness it we were in Hawaii recently and there was a gentleman there sharing that he have so much difficulty just dealing with his wife she wants him to do things like do the dishes and he says I run a business and I don't do the dishes she feel doesn't feel like I love her and I said well then why would you just do it at times because I do at times but it's like every time it and so she asked me you know you know am I. Gonna do dishes and I say yes and then they don't do it then she gets mad at me and I said yeah because there is anything authentic I said why don't you play your wife right now now let's talk about whatever she's upset about and I'll just be me but I'll put I'll be you there's i'll be myself if I was you and you'll just watch this little video and it's pretty simplistic only basically say is no I'm not gonna do it and he was shocked when I demonstrated this but I. Didn't do it harsh I didn't say you should go do these dishes I don't have a delusion that that's a woman's job I.
Just said I'm not going to do it this higher priority but I also don't think you do your problem i am committed working out a solution but i'm not going to do this and there's some things that you probably don't want to do I don't see let's work this out it's coming from a place of congruence and people can feel when you say what you mean and you mean what you say versus when you're play gating I know this is third grade at one level like we all know this intellectually but knowing intellectually in doing it is image to be having a passionate relationship in a relationship where you're constantly accommodating each other and accommodation doesn't produce passion it might have a relationship with there's some friendship but again the only difference between you know a friendship and an intimate relationship is intimacy and real exciting it's missy is when people fill your present feeling was dishonest you'll take it away so watch this quick little video so simple and see what you get out of the gentleman you think about if you might use that same sense of presence that's already inside you are you use in business or sport with that woman and not let the password out you might be surprised women very often when they feel that spring and excites them to see you have a standard and you're not going to be swayed take it out and then maybe show this even to a woman in your life and see if she agrees you might say that Tony Robbins was so full of it as a bunch of crap my bet is she'll say yeah smack you on the soul that's what I've been trying to tell you be President that's me and instead of you know saying well i'm sorry i'll be better just delivering maybe this week is the time Valentine's week of time for you to find your own Center the way you do in business the way do we have a purpose do app with a woman in your life the game will change but the inside there's going to be a part of you and a part of your partner in life whether you found them or the one you're pursuing or the one you're already with that you're going to start to cherish in a different level now while that may sound corny we've got some skills we just spent some time in Hawaii for seven days with our platinum partners and we went deep we were couples that were absolutely gone how would you describe some of them fully in love some of them over the top how would you describe the experience it was it was it's amazing to be able to take a relationship that truly doesn't feel that passion and doesn't feel that intimacy in that love and in a moment to be able to decide something new and that's what happened over and over and over again in Hawaii and so you're going to be able to experience a taste of that and we're just here to say that this weekend Valentine's week remember it's about waking up it's about waking up to adoring your partner at such a different level and celebrating your partner and you know it's crazy because on Valentine's Day you know we do so much that's romantic and the supplements creative and go out of our way and it's about bringing that magic and that love and that thoughtfulness and that sincerity and waking up to your partner's needs at such a different level because it really is in the little things that you know just create that depth of love it's also just deciding to set a stake in the ground as standard for going forward that this is not just Valentine's Day but your life you know people get what they accept people get what they tolerate in themselves and each other and most people in relationship are thinking about what they're going to tolerate the other person but in our relationship I think the beauty and the passion and all the juices I've gotten experience in our relationship my girl is because I hold myself to a higher standard that she can ever expect of me and I think when your standard and focus is about yourself instead of on your partner about how do I show up more what am I here to give in the beginning of a relationship people's whole focus is how do i like them up I. Want to do anything light them up and it makes you feel incredible like a partner up and you know relationship is aging not based on years but based on when you can be with somebody a week but you start thinking about what are we doing for me and I'm doing it all you start measuring what you're giving instead of just giving from your heart your soul things drop off so maybe this week is a chance for you to really create some relationship breakthroughs and we think that takes three things any kind of breakthrough sometimes it's having the right strategy because frankly you know as a guy we say and do things that girls interpret very differently they come up with very different meanings and vice versa you know for men for example problems or nothing you talk about problems of things you solve right now or you make them small and move on for ladies sharing that problem getting in feeling it not solving it understanding understanding gentlemen is such a key piece we are such different species and I think having an understanding of each other and each other's needs and knowing that we are not the same you know our own reality of how we think and feel and process life isn't the same for your partner so having that not just understanding but ruefully appreciation for how they view and experience the world is a game changer is it game time there's so many things in our relationship and it's like oh my goodness you know what it's not me cuz energy take things person it's just knowing that that's how they process reality and process life well they say that it's not meant for Mars Medina's john gray's a friend of mine it's a wonderful approach but all men have a feminine side of the mass curbside all women have a feminine side of the masculine side it's really just understanding how this species endemic species interpret the world and if you don't understand the strategy not interpret that you'll be upset or angry or frustrated so perhaps this week and you know you'll be able to dig in and get some new understandings that'll take some of the weight off to make you laugh and stuff that you used to get upset about it's one thing your strategies to know how to fix things but oftentimes you don't apply what you know because you got a story about your relationship a story about your part but they don't really care you know you got frustrations or pains or disappointments they got interpreted in the past and now you're generalizing about your partner whenever we generalize about anybody we do them at the service in ourselves as well so maybe this week during Valentine's week maybe discover what are the empowering stories about your relationship if you ask a couple how did you meet and they talk about it with such passion excitement you know the relationships still alive if they go yeah we met you know this is what happens we bumped into each and there's no energy for it even a story of how you met affects you so probably this week might you might want to take a look at the stories that you tell about your partner to yourself to your friends to your partner because we start to believe our story and I always tell people want to change your life change your story divorce the story of how your partner is not enough or you'll never find the partner you want if you're single or the good ones are gone whatever stopping you from getting what you want the relationships there's a story about it you can uncover it you can get rid of it divorce your story and marry the truth the truth is always something alone power you much more and that truth of that magnification remembering it's like one of the gifts that we give each other especially actually at a time like this like Valentine's week is actually be living those moments you know reliving the magic and appreciating the magic and it's just I don't know it infuses into your life rather than looking and letting those stacking staff out for you become frustrations and the story knowing that this man i was born to love this man and god gifted me all that a good sign on with millions of people the good i'm done this has been the gift of my life i got into that I believe that's my positive karma that's the core story i believe about this woman and that produces a love and commitment and devotion to each other that gives you any of the other BF that shows up when you get caught up in the daily stresses of things so rewrite your story what is your love affair and who are you for the one that you love and if you single it's time to rewrite the story of who you are and the one that you're going to track because whenever we focus on wherever we all know ever energy go wherever focus goes energy flows so your story controls the energy of your life if you think all the good ones are gone it's self-fulfilling you know if you're overweight and hunters and wait or strategies are there but you're not doing it cuz you go I've tried everything you haven't tried everything not all the good ones are gone and your partner was bright with you if there was ever a passion that pass can be brought back to life with the right strategies but first you gotta have the story that's ever can last one real fast well is the most important Bible relationship is the state you're in we always call the State of the Union aha you know what the state of the union if two people independent each other in pink states about things in their business their life their career and they need together it's a great relationship if they're both in kind of a so-so state eventually a relationship so if they're both in a crappy state prison of the crappy relationship what people who want is when we meet somebody we get attracted them because they change our statement change the way we feel we get excited want to be with them are you being are you putting yourself in a state when you're with the partner in your life or the person you want to track are you doing the state that would want them make them want to be with you like they would be in the beginning you know most people are noticing what the other person isn't doing but the most important thing is you're going to interpret your partner and really negative ways when you're in a lousy state ever than that at somebody you've got something and you found out later on you were wrong we just estate you're in so we have so many tools for changing state and we work at it weighted tuna I'm giggling about this one to state my husband how he says are the most loving human being on the planet until I don't eat then he calls me Godzilla oh so familiar dish from the same perspective feel where sometimes truthfully we will even if there's a staffing or we have a frustration we will literally it's like you know whether we need to change our state will go drink some water will eat something just taking a breath from what's happening in that moment so it allows your physiology to exchange so you're not like bringing that to the table in that moment because that can just cause if you're both frustrated and those two frustration jerz is going together it's like literally I mean we will physically just it's like let's do something so we'll jump in the pool sounds crazy but it actually like you know you come out and you feel different in feeling different your physiology you experience different realities when you're stuck in a relationship you're stuck because you're stuck in a state people get stuck in the future of futures not the way they want it to be in their head or something to happen in the past the best thing is to change something in the present physically change it bring some water have something to eat jump in the river do whatever you got to do because in the right state you and I both know if there's any love there you will transform and come back and solve the problem but in the wrong state good people the right people in the wrong state will mess up the relationship so if you want to break through this week look at some of the strategies for understanding appreciating and changing look at what triggers you to feel attractive because this week smudge is about love it's love and passion if all you have is love you have a friendship nothing all without but give them an intimate relationship and there's passion there so what are the strategies to trigger that the masculine and feminine energy the dance of it take a look at some of those this week take a look at this week is your own story take a look at your state and we're going to do some little videos this week for you just our gift to you and then at some point they'll be an offering for you to continue education with us we have our ultimate relationship program and I'll have some kind of special offer for you enough if you want to continue this journey with us and really expanding please take advantage of that but the first thing we want to do in there today or two maybe they'll put it on this video I don't know how they'll do it is what we call the eight to be great which is what are the laws of love and lust they're different love and passion what makes you love somebody doesn't always make you excited by them sometimes you just want to snuggle what makes you excited doesn't always bring out love how do you trigger both of these in the same relationship and a nice that it your night that passion ignite that loveth like that attraction if you can turn on and insistence and that's what we really share you know for us we are each other's best friends I mean there's literally I'm we share everything together and yet to have that and to have that intimacy alive to have that and to have that level of attraction that's where it's just it's a game changer is a game changer of a level of love and excitement and anticipation to really share your life together I'm fun and fun in cali feather Godzilla today only the role of it I'm a cupcake happy Valentine's week hope you enjoy some of the stuff we're sending you hope it's helpful for you we know will be if you take the time and and hope we get a chance to meet you in person someday an event or hear the story of how you've changed your life can change the relationship either created the one you really want or taking the one make your in to a new level god bless to you happy Valentine's Day I was the most important thing that anybody has to do man or woman I think of your right you men in the past and conditioned to associate more of their work for what they do and women have both devote time more to the relationships that you made go beyond conditioning the biochemistry is obviously very different every man and every woman have both male and female energy in themselves every every woman but most people a chance you have one that's stronger and so the answer to that is you have to become a creator instead of just 100 if you're a hunter and you get what you want rarely are you happy anyway that's how most men do and what I think Anthony instead is trapped what you want and the way you attract what you want is not just a composited layer to the thoughts it's getting really specific about what did you want like anything in life almost anything you've ever achieved in your life do that really clear something you got excited about you got obsessed I thought about also we can relate to something I. Want it's so bad I couldn't stop thinking about it and you can be kind of kept thinking about it and if you didn't come to play severe you hear things you notice things started you know making distinctions ideas came to you put together a plan it took some action something didn't work you try something else but you eventually got there because we're so good and so hungry and so clear but if you got a general go I. Don't have a relationship so I can do a while you going to lose some weight oh and make some money we're fine here's a dollar fine here's a guy you know by lose a pound and you just achieved your goals I think people out to get really specific what I did my own bicycle transform a life i sit down i wrote down everything I could possibly want in a relationship everything I was ridiculous in the level of precision I relax kick stages and I wrote spiritually mentally emotionally physically sense of humor you know how we interact what kind of things we laugh about beauty that level of insanity and then some people make less like that before then I went through and I thought that everything was over there must that wasn't really really a passion about right and I.
Tremble us now then cuz I'm a revisit able to feed my mind but I don't understand something just I want something I know I'm not a believer I. Didn't participate in the secret for very good reasons because I don't believe in the secret I think there's many secrets I believe well traction is one of them i pod three years but it isn't to make it like that life is absurd if all you have to do is think positively and cold it clearly and then secret is you attract your own thoughts there are dozens and dozens and dozens of the laws of lights are also equally important and who's to say you're supposed to think of something and get it everything you thought about you got you'd be bored out of your mind because I'm not eating what you want to sometimes most valuable thing that ever happened to you because out of that you become deeper richer stronger you open up and it took about one is more gift other people as well as to get to yourself as you know somebody who says I. Friend of especially for the day who wouldn't see it first came out at good time its come you know so much WT some more complex is so simple I think it's really simple if you want simple just go do it to me how it's working he's why I. Focus on green lights all the way here and have green lights all the way Airness we're gonna do in to get red lights get weighing yourself your they are not thinking possibly enough I said yes they are messed up I said it's a stupid I said you know it is it's like are you saying purpose people that were documents were there because they just weren't thinking positive up and they tracked it all that negativity realized that's absurd they all have different light paths and different stages of our problem in each stage or the firm different possibilities for us so I'm a big believer that you have to put yourself in a position where you decide not only what you want but who you have to become to attract them not just think positive so it's like I've enlisted all the things that what kind of man would I.
Have to be for a woman of that caliber to want to be with me not just for a day a week a month or a year with the rest of my life tell them that was the powerful once and that's what I'm ones work on a third blowing up to the moment you know matches lemon lemon about lloyds a nice guys women love me I love the big pleaser and they love me for a while maybe like he's just so nice of them some badass guide again okay but when I own myself I have to be a badass guy no was a nice guy was it everyone wants to be pleased but no one wants a pleaser and they might think they wanted they get it will be bored silly so when I own myself and I know who I wasn't the man and I have these qualities been attracted to one of my dreams with my life 12 years now since I'm out of my mind for skellige is that it might for me that came about so then I dooms regos every day for several months in advance or being like once every week or two and I was in a train between both of Swiss houston paris and venice with my wife's age is my brother at the time would actually one of my toughest events nom house very honest man about that us that I don't not look at me tied down with in that situation and you're doing things were so insane does it wait a second I. Pulled out and so you know wonderful time planner in those days that i was doing everything on the list at once she was everything I didn't want I was the one I didn't want also I should mention that because sometimes you get me wat and he gives you things you don't want me messing everything up earlier what nothing I didn't want that was a must and she was everything on it oh look at a guy that I said that can you commit to being and who I wasn't everything she wanted.
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